On the flip side, I've also seen masculine guys being shamed lightly and assumed to be 'faking it' (as if gay guys are inherently feminine or something, and coming off as straight or masculine is automatically phony). I've seen femme gay guys trying to act more 'butch' in order to attract guys who only want to date masculine men, and I've seen a lot of guys shaming more feminine gay men and implying that they are 'acting' feminine (as if it doesn't come naturally).
